
Midlife is not a matter of age, but a stage of life. It is a time when the stories that inspired our youth—our dreams of finding true love, fame or fortune—come to a close. That finish may be triumphant, like making one's first million dollars. Or it might arrive with failure and crisis—a painful divorce, being “downsized” at work, struggling with a dreadful illness.
More often, the youthful dreams end quietly, with an ordinary marriage, rather than ecstatic romance; or being promoted at work—but without $1 million in stock options.
When our youthful stories run out, what do we do next?
“Midway in our life’s journey, I went astray from the straight road and woke to find myself alone in a dark wood.” – Dante, The Inferno
This is the proverbial midlife passage—after old hopes, dreams and scripts have faded away, but before new ones have arisen.
Hope and help for these midlife perplexities arrive from an unexpected source...
Fairytales.
This may sound unbelievable and even ridiculous, because we usually consider fairytales suitable only for children. In just the same way, though, most of us also thought that myths were merely superstitions—at least until Joseph Campbell introduced the public to the deep insights contained in these stories.
Fairy tales, no less than myths, convey the “wisdom of the ancestors.”
Myths—and folkstories in general—are the genes of human culture, and like DNA in chromosomes, contain highly compressed information essential to human life. Folktales function in this way because they are passed from person to person, century to century, culture to culture. In a process akin to natural selection, only stories with deep, enduring appeal reach us. These survivors have stood the test of time. They are the heirlooms of the human family, preserved because they are the most precious.
A large group of fairytales focus specifically on midlife, although they are much less known than stories about youth, like “Cinderella,” or “Sleeping Beauty.” These “middle tales” are astonishingly different from youth stories and specifically depict the issues of maturity, not youth—the psychological, emotional and spiritual tasks of midlife.
I gathered these stories by reading through some 7000 fairytales, and picking out all the ones whose protagonists were adults, called neither “young” or “old.” Fairytales rarely give chronological age is, but the stories make clear that these are individuals in the middle years. When assembled together and compared with each other, the stories reveal astonishing cross-cultural similarities. While any single story may seem intricate and incomprehensible by itself, when compared to other stories, their similarities make the meaning clearer.
The stories provide a map we can use to navigate through the often difficult terrain of midlife. While science and technology have changed enormously, the basic dilemmas of human life have not—middle tales are as relevant now as they were millennia ago.
Experience is better than explication, so I present a middle tale, specifically addressing men's issues at midlife. (More stories, including those about women at midlife, will follow on this Website.) I break up the story into episodes, with questions and comments in between—the questions will help you apply the fairy tale insights to your life.
Other stories are included in four anthologies books
Once upon a time a man, known as Brother Lustig, served in the King's army. After many years of war, Lustig's King signed a peace treaty and dismissed all the soldiers. Lustig was sent his way with only a loaf of bread and four silver coins. “A fine way to treat a loyal soldier!” Lustig muttered.
While it is frustrating to interrupt the story just after it starts, the one paragraph beginning is very significant. It sums up men's situation at midlife!
How?
Lustig's tale begins when he is discharged from the army with little reward for his years of service. Ex-soldiers like Lustig are often protagonists in men's tales, and their plight sums up the collapse of heroic ideals that men often experience at midlife.
After working long and hard toward a heroic dream, the way Lustig served his King, many men find themselves left in the lurch with nothing to show for their devotion. If a man attains his youthful ambitions, he often finds them dissatisfying and meaningless. If he fails in his dreams, he realizes there is no time left for a second attempt. Lustig personifies the post-heroic period in men's lives.
Lustig was not one to bear grudges, so he whistled a jaunty tune, and set out on the road. A beggar came up to Lustig and asked for food and alms. Brother Lustig exclaimed, "This small loaf and four coins are all I have. Still," he went on, "I shall give you something." So Lustig broke his loaf into four pieces, and gave one to the poor man. Then he counted out his four coins and gave one to the beggar.
"God bless you," the beggar said, and the two men parted. The pauper was none other than St. Peter, walking the earth, and he hurried away to disguise himself as a cripple. Then he limped back to Lustig and begged for food and money.
"I have little enough for myself!" Lustig complained. "Still, you have less than me." So Lustig gave the cripple a slice of bread and a coin.
"God bless you," the cripple declared, and hobbled on his way. As soon as he was out of sight, St. Peter took the form of an old, sick man, and met Lustig down the road. "Have you alms for an old beggar," the apostle asked, "or a slice of bread for the hungry?"
"You're the third man who's asked from me this morning," Brother Lustig exclaimed. "What has the world come to! But I have a little I can share." So the soldier gave the old man a slice of bread and a coin. Then Lustig hurried to the nearest inn. "If I don't eat my last piece of bread and spend my money now," he thought, "I shall have nothing for myself!" The ex-soldier bought a beer, ate his bread and set out on the road once again.
Hope and help for these midlife perplexities arrive from an unexpected source...
Imagine yourself in Lustig's situation, discharged from the army with only a pittance for 25 years of work.
Although he finds himself in a painful midlife crisis, Lustig does not give up. nor does he become bitter. (Remember, this is a fairy tale! These stories portray what ideally happens, not what commonly occurs.) He starts traveling the road and soon encounters St. Peter. The manner in which the two men meet is highly significant.
St.Peter disguises himself as a cripple, a beggar, an old man, and an ex-soldier, asking for food and money. Lustig can ill afford to give anything away, but he shares what he has, underscoring how generous he is.
In psychological terms, Lustig has developed his nurturing, generous side -- what Jungians call the "anima," a man's "feminine" element. Strictly speaking, though, nurturing is not necessarily feminine, since mythology is full of archetypal images of masculine nurturing. And anyone who has been a parent or observed parents taking care of children, know the distinctively different styles of nurturing that mothers and fathers have.
St. Peter's role in the episode is astonishing -- he is basically a Trickster, deceiving Lustig with various disguises. Yet most people think of Tricksters as con men, petty criminals and juvenile delinquents. St. Peter is none of those -- as an apostle, he is the pillar of propriety, the "rock" upon which the Christian Church is founded. If he is a Trickster, Tricksters could not be all that bad.
Indeed, as Lustig's story unfolds, it dramatizes virtually all of the essential-- and positive -- features of Tricksters found in world mythology. And "Brother Lustig" unveils an even bigger surprise -- the Trickster replaces the hero as a model for men at midlife, providing a new and totally unexpected ideal of the masculine.
A little later, Lustig ran into a soldier, who was St. Peter in one more disguise. "Good day, brother," the apostle said, "have you alms or bread for a penniless man?"
"Ah no, good fellow," Lustig replied. "I have nothing to eat or spend. If you have no money, too, we can go begging together."
"No need for that," St. Peter smiled. "I know something of healing, and if you come with me, I'll give you half of what I earn."
Lustig readily agreed and the two set off on the road again, singing old army tunes. They came to a farmhouse where everyone wept because the farmer lay deathly ill. "I can cure your husband," St. Peter told the farmer's wife. The apostle anointed the farmer with a salve, and in a trice, the man arose from bed, whole and healthy. Out of gratitude, he offered St. Peter anything on the farm as a reward.
"I need no reward," the apostle declared.
"Psst! Psst!" Brother Lustig whispered in his companion's ear. "We have to eat, don't we?" But St. Peter would take no gift. "Don't be a fool!" Lustig poked his comrade in the ribs, "at least take some food!" The farmer and his wife saw that Lustig wanted something, so they fetched a lamb, and gave it to the soldier as a reward.
"If you want it so much," St. Peter told Lustig, "you must carry the lamb yourself."
"Easy enough!" Lustig declared, and the two departed together. "What a queer fellow he is!" Lustig mused about his compan-ion, "saving the farmer's life and taking no reward!"
After they befriend each other, St. Peter and Lustig travel without any definite destination. (St. Peter remains disguised, like a good Trickster.) Such wandering is typical of Tricksters around the world, like Hermes from Greece, Eshu and Legba of Africa, or Wakdjunkaga and Coyote in America.
Indeed, Hermes was the patron of travelers, and shrines were erected to him by the roadside, particularly at crossroads. Legba and Eshu are like-wise associated with crossroads and travel.
As a wanderer, the Trickster offers an excellent symbol for change, transition, and transformation. He sums up men's plight at midlife -- just when men reach some measure of success and comfort and expect to enjoy themselves, their lives are turned upside down. Familiar patterns collapse, forcing them to roam the world, seeking a new way of life, just like Lustig. This confused wandering contrasts with the confident quest of the young hero, who pours all his energies into one or two dreams. When those ambitions disintegrate at midlife, men shift from heroic quests to post-heroic roving.
The Trickster's wandering differs from that of the "puer" or "eternal youth." The latter is a man who remains an adolescent at heart, no matter what his chronological age, and who never makes or keeps commitments. He flits from place to place, job to job, relationship to relationship. Tricksters like Lustig have made commitments and kept them. Lustig served 25 years in the army before wandering the road! Eternal youths do not tolerate such commitments. They are "pre-heroic" and know little about loyalty, perseverance, or dedication, the traditional virtues of the hero and the patriarch. Lustig has mastered those qualities and now faces new tasks. His wandering is post-heroic, not adolescent.
As they travel together, Lustig and St. Peter come upon a sick farmer, and the apostle cures him. Such healing is common in fairy tales about midlife, and the importance of the theme to men in the middle years is readily apparent. On a literal level, men begin to suffer from various physical ailments. Sprains from weekend athletics take longer to heal, and heart disease exacts a grim toll. The youthful motto, "Victory at any cost!" becomes the midlife worry about simply surviving. Psychological healing also becomes vital, because men acknowledge their inner wounds at midlife and walk what Robert Bly so poignantly called, "the road of ashes." Healing is a post-heroic preoccupation.
Healing is also an attribute of Trickster figures. Although the fact is often overlooked, Tricksters bring vital healing arts to their people. Behind their pranks and buffoonery, Tricksters are healers and therapists, providing exactly what men need in maturity.
The Native American Trickster, Wakdjunkaga gave humankind important medicines, as did the Trickster is Legba and Eshu in Africa. (Legba also spread diseases to force people to buy his medicines!) Among the Zuni, the Newekwe healing cult was founded by a Trickster figure and provides healing ceremonies for the sick. Hopi Trickster-clowns, similarly, perform their outrageous actions to heal disease and reconcile social conflicts within their communities. Navajo healing ceremonies include tales of Coyote the Trickster as an integral part of the rite.
As they traveled, the lamb became heavier and heavier, until Lustig could carry it no further. "Look friend," Lustig said, stopping beneath a tree, "this seems a nice enough place to rest. I will make a fire and cook the lamb, then we can have a proper meal."
"As you wish," the saint replied, and he gave a pot to Lustig for cooking. "But I leave everything to you. I will walk by the river and come back later. Mind you don't start dinner without me!"
"Certainly not!" Brother Lustig exclaimed. He built a fire, boiled some water, slaughtered the lamb, threw it into the pot, and stirred it round and round. The stew smelled delicious, and Lustig licked his lips, waiting for his companion to return. The minutes become hours, and each time the pot bubbled, it seemed to say, "Taste me!" And each time Lustig looked away, his stomach rumbled, "Now!"
"What could be keeping him?" Lustig thought impatiently. Finally Lustig fished around in the pot and plucked out the heart. "That's supposed to be the best part," he thought to himself, and nibbled a bit of it. One bite led to another and the heart was soon gone. At that moment St. Peter returned. Lustig hastily replaced the lid on the pot. "Well, it's about time!" Lustig reproved his companion. "The stew's been ready for hours."
"I'm not hungry now," St. Peter said. "Just give me the lamb's heart, and you can have the rest."
Lustig gulped nervously. Then he fished around in the pot, pulling up chunks of meat. "Is this the heart?" he asked St. Peter. "No," the apostle replied." "How about this?" "No, it's not that." "This one?" "Not that either." Suddenly Lustig exclaimed, "How foolish of us! Of course we can't find the heart in here! Lambs have no hearts!"
"Eh?" the apostle asked in surprise. "Lambs have no hearts?"
"Yes. How silly of us to forget!" Lustig went on quickly.
"But how could that be?" St. Peter asked. "All creatures have hearts."
"All creatures, except lambs," Brother Lustig replied.
"Well," St. Peter said, "if lambs have no hearts, then I don't want any of this stew. You can have it all." So Lustig ate the meal with gusto.
After St. Peter cures the farmer, Lustig takes a lamb as a reward and cooks it. The apostle then plays a little trick on his companion, making Lustig promise not to eat anything until he returns, but then staying away so long that Lustig cannot resist his hunger. In effect, St. Peter entices Lustig into breaking a promise and lying. St. Peter even gave Lustig the pot to use for cooking, so the apostle's actions border on entrapment! What are we to make of this? And why is the story so specific about eating the lamb's heart?
The tale, I think, is making fun of the Church. The lamb is a traditional symbol of Christ which would presumably be known to the listeners of this German tale. The "sacred heart of Jesus" is also a frequent image in Catholic liturgy. So eating the lamb's heart mocks important religious icons. And it is no less than St. Peter himself who engineers this parody of a Christian sacrament! Here he plays a traditional role of Tricksters -- the sacred clown.
Since the lamb and "the Sacred Heart" are symbols of Christ, eating the lamb's heart brings up the macabre image of eating the heart of Christ. Yet this, doctrinally speaking, is what the sacrament of holy communion involves -- when worshipers eat the consecrated bread and wine, they partake of the body and blood of Christ. So the fairy tale presents a reductio ab absurdum of an essential Christian doctrine.
Sacred clowns appear at important religious ceremonies to make fun of the rites -- just as a jester often will mock the King, sacred clowns parody and insult high priests, and bishops. The most dramatic examples probably come from Native American tradition, where sacred clowns -- for instance, among the Hopi and Zuni -- would even defecate at solemn tribal rites! These Trickster characters, however, appear in virtually all cultures -- even medieval France and England had their version in the "Feast of the Ass." The purpose of the trickster's parodies is to shock people out of a complacent faith, or narrow-minded dogmatism -- to "de-construct" conventional ways of thinking and living. This is, in fact, an important task for men at midlife -- to become more flexible and expressive, less judgmental and patriarchal.
The Feast of the Ass turned the whole congregation into sacred clowns -- "worshipers" would parade around in their church, following someone impersonating a Bishop, who rode facing backwards on a donkey. The mock Bishop would recite the Mass, burning shoes instead of incense. Although hard to believe now, these raucous festivities even occurred in Notre Dame Cathedral of Paris, but were eventually suppressed by the Church. Echoes, nevertheless, remain in today's Mardi Gras celebrations: as the holiest week of the Christian calendar approaches, people gather in outlandish costumes and masks, to do things they would not normally think of doing.
The next day the two men set out on the road and came to a broad stream. "We can ford the river here," St. Peter said. "Why don't you go first?"
"No, no," Lustig replied hastily, "you lead, and I'll follow." Privately, Lustig told himself, "If it's too deep, I don't want to drown!" St. Peter started off across the river, and the water came up only to his ankles. In no time at all he was on the other side, beckoning for Lustig to follow. The ex-soldier hoisted his pack and waded into the river. With the first step, the water came up to his knees, with the second, to his waist and before he knew it, Lustig was floundering in the river.
"Help! Help!" Lustig sputtered, "I can't swim!"
"I will help you," St. Peter said, "if you confess you ate the lamb's heart!"
"I don't know what you're talking about!" Brother Lustig cried out. "Help! I'm going to drown!"
"Confess you ate the lamb's heart!"
"What are you saying at a time like this! Help me!"
St. Peter could not bear to let his companion drown, so he made the water recede, and Lustig stumbled out of the river. When he recovered, the two resumed their journey.
As a saint and an apostle, we would expect Peter to be a stern moral judge. Yet he relents, and saves the unrepentant Lustig. In effect, he puts their friendship and camaraderie above moral purity. The story emphasizes the importance of fraternity with its title -- "Brother Lustig."
The tale makes no reference to Lustig being a member of a religious order, and Lustig probably would not have had time to become one, since he has apparently been a soldier for most of his life. So "Brother" is probably not religious, and most likely alludes to the camaraderie of soldiers.
Here we come to an important image in men's tales from around the world, that of a Spirit Brother, a spiritual being who accompanies, advises, and often plays pranks on a man at midlife. The theme surfaces in many other folk tales, like "The King and the Ghoul" from India, as well as in classical literature, like Dante's Divine Comedy. In the latter, Dante suffers a midlife calamity and descends into Hell -- an apt metaphor for many men's experience at midlife. Throughout his ordeal in the Inferno, the spirit of Virgil, the ancient Roman poet, accompanies Dante, helping him pass safely through Hell's many perils. Moreover, Virgil treats Dante as a peer -- fraternity prevails not authority.
Such male camaraderie is deeply healing for men today. Modern culture considers intimacy to be feminine, and so men typically look to women to create and sustain relationships. Historically, though, male fraternity was an independent model of intimacy, often even more important than romantic love between man and woman. But we must distinguish two kinds of comrades -- the Spirit Brother vs. the Warrior Comrade. The two are easily confused because the brotherhood of warriors is better known, appearing as it does in the ancient story of Gilgamesh from Sumeria, The Iliad from classical Greece, The Song of Roland from medieval Europe, and more recently, in such films as, Saving Private Ryan.
The fraternity of war heroes is the stuff of youth, and that camaraderie fails at midlife. Quite simply, hero-comrades die young. Achilles and Patrocles fell at Troy, while Roland and Oliver perished in the bloom of youth. War buddies never have to grapple with the responsibilities of maturity, the problems of raising a family, and fears of growing old. This is the importance of "Brother Lustig" and other men's tales. The stories address the concerns of mature men and offer a new model of male friendship, no longer based on youthful heroism. Lustig is an ex-soldier, not a young warrior. The fraternity between Lustig and St. Peter is a matter of sharing new experiences and healing old wounds, rather than fighting common enemies -- which is the essence of youthful warrior camaraderie.
The brother archetype becomes important at midlife
for several reasons. By this time, many men have seen one or both of
their parents die. Conflicts with mother and father, so characteristic
of youth, begin to fade, either because the disputes have been resolved
or because they are no longer relevant. By middle-age too, most men
have come into positions of authority at work or home. There are fewer
superiors to fight with and more peers.
The fraternity of young men is heroic, that of mature men, post-heroic.
In a typical story about youth, three brothers vie for the hand of a
Princess and the right to succeed the old King. When the youngest
brother wins the contest, the older ones plot to kill him. Tales of
youth emphasize competitiveness between man, not camaraderie. The
stories reflect the realities of patriarchal and heroic society, in
which only one man can become the ruling patriarch, so every man fights
for it. The Spirit Brother liberates men from this frantic, fratricidal
competition.
They soon came to a land shrouded in gloom, where the King's daughter lay deathly ill. "This is our chance, friend!" Lustig exclaimed. "We can win a fortune if you heal the Princess the way you cured the farmer!" He wanted to rush to the castle, but St. Peter kept walking more and more slowly.
"Don't be a sluggard!" Lustig urged his companion. "The Princess might die at any moment!" But the apostle only dragged his feet all the more. When they came to the palace, they learned the Princess had just expired. "Now you've done it, slow-poke!" Lustig accused his companion.
"No need to shout," the apostle replied calmly, "I can raise the dead, too!" St. Peter went up to the King and Queen and told them he knew the secret of reviving the dead.
"Bring our daughter back to life," the King declared, "and you shall have half my kingdom!" St. Peter requested that he and Lustig be left alone with the body of the Princess. Once by themselves, the apostle told Brother Lustig to build a fire and boil some water. Then St. Peter cut up the body of the Princess and threw the pieces into the pot. When the flesh boiled off, he gathered the bones and laid them on the bed, carefully putting each bone in its proper place. St. Peter stood back, and said, "Arise, dead Princess, in the name of the most Holy Trinity!" Once, twice, three times he said this, and the Princess arose, as if she had just awakened from a nap.
The King and Queen were overjoyed when their daughter walked out of the room. "Name what you will," the King told the two soldiers, "and it is yours!" St. Peter refused any reward, but Lustig kept poking the apostle and whispering in his ear. The King and green saw that Lustig wanted something, so they ordered the soldier's knapsack filled with gold. Then St. Peter and Lustig set off once more. In the middle of a forest, St. Peter stopped and turned to his comrade. "Let us divide the gold equally."
"Ah," Lustig exclaimed, "so you have come to your senses. I took you for a fool back there, refusing a fortune." Lustig handed the gold to St. Peter. "You can divide the gold." The apostle carefully counted out the coins, and put them in three piles. Lustig asked. "But there are only two of us here!"
"This pile is for you," St. Peter explained, and pushed one heap of coins to Lustig. "This one is for me," he pulled one pile to himself. "And the third is for the person who ate the lamb's heart!"
"Why that was me!" Brother Lustig said quickly, sweeping the extra gold into his knapsack.
"But I thought lambs have no hearts?" the apostle said in mock surprise.
"No hearts?" Lustig exclaimed incredulously. "How could you think such a thing? All creatures have hearts!"
"So be it," St. Peter said. "The gold is yours, and this too," pushing his share to Lustig. "But I will no longer travel with you. You must go on alone."
"I'm sorry for that," Lustig replied, "because I like you and enjoy your company." But Lustig took comfort in his new wealth. After the two men parted, Lustig went his way, and in no time at all, he spent his fortune, gave to the poor, and was penniless once more.
After healing the sick farmer, Lustig and Peter arrive at the kingdom where the princess just died, and St. Peter resurrects the dead woman. The details of St. Peter's ritual are astonishing and puzzling. The apostle cuts up the corpse, boils the pieces, until only the bones are left and then resurrects the Princess from the skeleton. This gruesome rite clashes with Christian tradition -- where Jesus resurrected Lazarus, by simply commanding him to rise.
St. Peter's horrifying ritual emerges from an even more ancient tradition -- that of shamanism, which probably extends back to the origins of humanity. In shamanic tradition around the world, shamans are typically initiated by a dream, or some altered experience, in which they are boiled alive, cut to pieces, devoured by demons or torn apart by wild animals, until only bones are left. Then they are resurrected with the power to heal.
Shamanism is most prominent in hunter-gatherer cultures, like the Yakut of Siberia, the !Kung of Africa, or the Inuit of Alaska. This nomadic culture constitutes the original human culture, extending perhaps 100,000 years ago. With the invention of agriculture, probably around 10,000 years ago, priests displaced shamans. And as cities and empires were invented, kings and patriarchs suppressed shamanism even more, leaving its ancient traditions to linger in folktales and on the margins of society.
This ordeal provides a metaphor for many men's midlife experience: during a painful divorce, or "downsizing at work," men often feel like they are being boiled alive, and reduced to nothing but bones, the most basic stuff of the body. Lustig's story and other men's tales are important in reassuring men that there is life after this dark night of the soul -- indeed, making it through this painful period is an initiation, a passage from youth to mature man, from hero to shaman. And in world mythology, shamans are tricksters: as Joseph Campbell pointed out, the shaman is a human version of the divine trickster.
Tricksters, like Hermes or Eshu, are divine beings, who carry the messages of the gods to humans. Shamans do the same thing from the opposite direction, going to the gods with messages from humans. Tricksters and shamans share so many other traits, we might speak of a combined shaman-Trickster archetype.
The story is clear that it is a male power that resurrects the dead Princess -- St. Peter, a man, invokes the male Holy Trinity. Here we come to an important trait of Tricksters around the world: they represent a male life force. Indeed, the Trickster is often the original creator of life, as is the case among the !Kung of Africa with Gao, or among the Northwest Native Americans with Raven. Many Tricksters also have the power to raise the dead, and some of them, like Coyote of North America, even resurrect themselves. Moreover, the trickster is a life-giver in a social sense, bringing language, fire, and medicines to humanity, as well as vital inventions, like metal-working. These gifts make human life possible.
Frequently, the Trickster's vital force is expressed in sexual ways: he functions as a life-giver in a concrete, biological sense. The Trickster's phallic, procreative energy is well illustrated by the Greek Hermes, Shiva of India, and the African tricksters, Eshu and Legba: all of them are represented by sacred phalluses. The Yoruba tribe explicitly link Eshu to what they call "ase," the primordial life force.
The image of the Trickster as a primordial source of human life and civilization is vital to men in several ways. First, the trickster promises healing to men thrashing about at midlife, offering advice, camaraderie, renewal, and rejuvenation. In practical terms, the Trickster Companion is often a male therapist, because men today have few close male friends. Fortunately, with the men's movement, the Spirit Comrade increasingly includes an entire men's group.
The Trickster's primordial life force appeared in
a dream I had several years ago. Because I did not understand the
episode, I simply wrote it down and forgot about it. I recalled the
dream while working on this chapter and recognized its parallels to
"Brother Lustig."
In the dream, I was part of a group of men in a spaceship and we landed
on an unknown planet. Our ship was damaged in the process, and we could
not take off. The planet had breathable air, but was lifeless and
lacked water. Fearful we would perish when our supplies ran out, we
began searching for food and water. We soon discovered a cave and
descended into it, hoping to locate a hidden spring. Using ropes and
pitons, we climbed a long way down, but just as the last person reached
bottom the rope broke. Without a way up, we were trapped in the cavern,
and with supplies sufficient only for a few days we were desperate. Yet
as the days went by, miraculously the food and water in our packs never
gave out. We eventually discovered why.
In our explorations through the cave, we came across the first evidence
of intelligent life on the planet. It was a stone wall from which
protruded a silver metal rod, about 30 feet long and a foot wide,
constantly rotating. I knew in that way peculiar to dreams that this
machine was hundreds of thousands of years old, and that it was a
generator of some sort. Its power was respon-sible for our food and
water never running out. Soon after coming upon this strange device, we
found our way back to the surface of the planet. And with the help of
the machine, we were able to make the desert planet fertile and
colonize the new world.
In the dream, I start off with a group of men in a spaceship. Being
part of a male space crew brings up the theme of masculine camaraderie,
and recalls Lustig's situation at the beginning of his tale: he is a
soldier in an army. The spaceship emphasizes the masculine theme, since
the heavens are usually the province of male deities. In the dream, we
are stranded on a barren planet, descend into a cavern, and become
trapped there. The episode symbolizes the collapse of the heroic
paradigm, analogous to Lustig being abandoned by his king or Dante
descending into Hell. Stranded in the cavern, we have only limited food
and water, but miraculously our supplies never run out. Our backpacks
continue to sustain us, and the source of the magic turns out to be a
massive silver rod rotating deep within the earth. Although placed
horizontally rather than vertically, the cylinder is a giant phallic
symbol, a high-tech version of the ancient Hindu lingam, personifying
Shiva, the Hindu trickster god. The silver rod represents a masculine
source of life and energy linked to Tricksters. Machinery, I might add,
is consistent with the Trickster's role as an inventor, giver of fire,
and a patron of metalworking.
This space-age dream thus repeats an age-old drama: male comrades
descend into the unconscious and encounter the primordial, life-giving
masculine energy of the Trickster. The themes are elusive and highly
disguised, but that is characteristic of the Trickster!
Second, as a thoroughly masculine image of the life force, the Trickster Brother counteracts the mistaken view that only the feminine and the Great Mother Goddess have the power to give life. Many recent discussions of the Goddess, in fact, make her out to be the sole source of life, as if the ancients were ignorant of sexual biology. But both mythology and archeology make clear that the Trickster is at least as old an archetype as the Mother Goddess. Yet the Trickster is not the Father God of patriarchal tradition. The Trickster represents an older, pre-patriarchal source of masculine vitality, and offers an alternative to both the Great God or Goddess.
The earliest records of the Trickster lie in
Paleolithic cave paintings, from around 30,000 years ago -- one of
humanity's oldest known symbolic expressions. In the deepest recesses
of the chambers, unknown artists created half-man, half-animal figures
who are usually dancing. (They are identified as male because of the
erect penises they sport. Some cave sites, like that of Bedeilhac in
the Pyrenees, use stalagmites as penises for male figures!) The most
famous example is the "dancing shaman" of the Trois Frères caves
in France, but similar images have been found in India and Africa.
These ancient figures are usually interpreted today as shamans. Support
for this view comes from contemporary hunter-gatherers, like the San of
Africa, who portray half-men, half-animal dancers in their art,
identifying the beings as shamans. They also believe that a man can
take the form of a lion during shamanic hunting dances, and an ancient
site of rock art in the San area depicts a half-man, half-lion figure,
engraved some 26,000 years ago. European dancing shamans often have
lion traits, too, emphasizing the archetypal nature of the half-man,
half-animal theme.
Paleolithic male figures feature many of the basic traits of
tricksters. First of all, tricksters commonly take animal forms, like
Coyote of North America, or Ananse the Spider from Africa. Tricksters
also are known for dancing -- Legba, and African Trickster, was made
chief of the gods, because he alone could play the flute and the drum
while simultaneously dancing. (The dancing shaman of the Trois
Fréres cave, I might add, appears to be playing a flute.)
Similarly, Tricksters like Hermes, Legba, Eshu and Shiva are often
symbolized by sacred phalluses, continuing the prominent phallic theme
in the ancient dancing shamans.
After running out of money, Lustig found himself in another kingdom, shrouded in gloom. The reason, Lustig learned, was that the daughter of the King had just died. "Aha!" Lustig thought to himself, "I shall earn myself some money." He hurried to the palace, presented himself to the King and Queen, and offered to bring the Princess back to life. The King and Queen promised Lustig any reward he wanted, if he succeeded.
Lustig asked to be alone with the dead Princess. He lit a fire, boiled water in a pot, cut the body of the Princess up, and threw all the pieces into the cauldron. After the flesh boiled away, Lustig fished out the bones, and laid them on the bed. Then he scratched his head. "Ah, this is a problem! How do the bones go together?" He arranged the skeleton as best he could, stepped back, and then said, "Arise dead Princess, in the name of the most Holy Trinity!" Once, twice, three times he said this, with no results. Lustig rearranged the bones and tried again. Still nothing happened. He shuffled the bones and repeated his incantation -- to no avail. "Confound you, girl, get up!" he cried out at last. Lustig started to worry. If the King learned his daughter was boiled to bits, what would he do to Lustig?
At that moment St. Peter happened to be passing by. He looked through the window, saw what Lustig was doing, and climbed into the room. "Scoundrel," the saint said, "what are you doing with the dead?" Brother Lustig looked sheepishly at his former companion and explained the situation. The apostle studied the bones and then said, "This will not work at all! You have jumbled everything up! Just this once I will help you out. But never again try to raise the dead!" He shook his finger at Lustig. "And I warn you not to ask for any reward from the King!" Lustig nodded meekly.
St. Peter rearranged the bones, stepped back, and commanded three times, "Dead Princess, arise in the name of the Most Holy Trinity!" The Princess arose, whole and healthy. St. Peter went on his way, and Lustig eagerly led the Princess to her parents.
The King and Queen rejoiced. "Name your reward," the King declared. Lustig hemmed and hawed, never quite asking for a reward, but the King took the hint. He ordered Lustig's knapsack filled with gold. The soldier jubilantly went on his way, only to run into St. Peter, still in disguise.
"A fine man you are," the apostle declared. "I told you not to ask for a reward, and here you are with a pile of gold on your back!"
"Well," Brother Lustig smiled weakly, "I can't disobey a King when he commands me to take his gold!"
St. Peter sighed. "So be it. But remember, don't ever try raising the dead."
Lustig laughed. "I won't need to, now that I have this reward." He shook his pack and the coins jingled loudly.
The apostle sighed again. "You'll run out of money soon enough, and then you'll be tempted to raise the dead." The apostle thought a moment, then he took the pack from his own back and gave it to Lustig. "Take my knapsack," he told the soldier. "It is magic, and whatever you wish to go into the pack will do so. With it, you will never go wanting again, so you will have no need to raise the dead. And when we part this time, we shall never meet again." St. Peter took his leave, and Lustig resumed his journey, stuffing the apostle's pack inside his own knapsack, and thinking no further about the gift.
After St. Peter resurrects the first princess, Lustig tries to do so on his own -- and of course bungles the attempt. While we may laugh at his foolishness, we have to admire his willingness to try something new at midlife. How many middle-aged men have the courage to take a radically different path in life, risking failure and embarrassment?
Luckily for Lustig, St. Peter rescues him by resurrecting the Princess. So once again, St. Peter overlooks Lustig's faults to help him. Brotherhood means more than moral purity.
Personally, I find Lustig's example reassuring -- despite his blunders, foolishness, and poor judgment, he still recovers. This, in fact, is characteristic of Tricksters -- they make the most stupid mistakes, fall into the worst predicaments, and yet survive, often with divine intervention. They have a certain trust in the world, the ability to laugh at themselves, and a link to the divine -- three important lessons for men at midlife.
While the fairy tale may seem like pure fantasy -- wish fulfillment for men in trouble at midlife -- it is not. In fact, a real-life example which parallels Lustig's tale in a striking fashion comes from the life of Carl Jung.
Jung joined the psychoanalytic movement in its early days, and soon became Sigmund Freud's heir apparent -- the leader that Freud hoped would disseminate psychoanalysis throughout the world. Although initially quite close, the two men eventually had a falling out, overtly over theoretical differences.
Freudians and Jungians, naturally, have differing explanations for the split. Many Jungians say that Jung broke with Freud because the latter insisted on interpreting all religious experiences in terms of unconscious sexual drives, whereas Jung felt that there was an independent spiritual aspect of the psyche. Some Freudians claim that Freud rejected Jung after learning of an affair Jung allegedly had with one of Jung's patients. But the reason for the split is probably less important than the result.
Jung resigned his leadership positions in the international psychoanalytic societies, and split with Freud, determined to pursue his own ideas about psychology. With his professional career apparently in shambles, Jung soon plunged into a midlife crisis, and for a time even contemplated suicide, keeping a pistol in his desk drawer. Like Lustig trying to resurrect the dead Princess on his own, and bungling it badly, Jung set out to explore the human unconscious, just as Freud had done -- and quickly lost his way.
During this time, however, Jung began to have dramatic dreams and fantasies in which a principal character was a man with the wings of a kingfisher bird and the horns of a bull. Jung became fascinated by this figure, named him "Philemon," and often carried on imaginary conversations with him while taking walks. From these visualizations evolved Jung's psychology of archetypes. So important was this interaction with Philemon, Jung considered him his "inner guru," who taught him everything he was to learn about psychology.
Philemon led Jung out of his midlife crisis, just as St. Peter rescued Lustig -- repeatedly. While less playful and humorous than St. Peter, Philemon is also a Trickster. In painting Philemon, for instance, Jung portrayed him as a "herm," a phallic column with a man's head on top. As mentioned before, Hermes, Eshu, Legba and Shiva are traditionally represented by such a sacred phallus. Jung also explicitly considered Philemon to be a primordial masculine energy, which is exactly what the Trickster personifies. Moreover, Philemon essentially acted as Jung's guide to the unconscious, introducing him to both its demonic and sublime aspects -- and this is a central function of Tricksters, guiding humanity into the underworld and the overworld, Hell and Heaven.
A story which parallels "Brother Lustig" in an astonishing way comes from India -- "The King and the Ghoul." Here, too, a man at midlife -- in this case a King -- gets himself into a mess, by naively promising to help a holy man. The latter, however, is actually an evil necromancer who plans to kill the King. Fortunately, a Trickster spirit appears and helps the King escape his predicament, while turning it around to his advantage -- and the benefit of humanity.
After rescuing Lustig, St. Peter gives him the magic knapsack, ostensibly to prevent the ex-soldier from trying to raise the dead again. But this is surely an invitation to trouble -- who knows what Lustig might do with the magic power? St. Peter's gift recalls how the apostle gave Lustig the cooking pot to make the lamb stew, and then tempted Lustig to break his promise and lie. Is Peter doing something similar here?
The days went by, and Lustig soon found himself with only four coins to his name. So he stopped at an inn, ordered wine and bread, and sat down to eat. In front of him, the innkeeper roasted two geese, and the sight of them made Lustig hungry. He eyed the birds and then remembered the magic knapsack his companion had given him. "Well, well," Lustig thought to himself. "Let's see if there's anything to what that odd fellow promised!"
"Into my pack, the two of you," Lustig muttered at the geese. In a trice, the two birds vanished from the oven, and when Lustig peered in his pack, there they were! Lustig paid for his beer, hurried out the door, tipping his hat at the innkeeper, and went to a nearby meadow. As he settled down and started eating a goose, two young workmen came along the road.
"Good day, fine sir," the journeymen said, eyeing the geese hungrily.
"Good day," Brother Lustig replied. Then he paused and thought to himself, "I do not need two geese for myself." So Lustig gave one to the two men. They happily accepted the gift and hurried to the nearest inn for a bottle of wine. "What a stroke of luck!" they congratulated each other.
The innkeeper looked suspiciously at the two youths, eating such a fine goose. So he ran to his oven, opened it, and saw both his birds missing. "Thieves!" the innkeeper screamed at the workmen. "How dare you steal my geese!"
The two men protested, "A soldier gave the goose to us!"
"Liars!" the innkeeper shrieked, and he fetched a stick and began beating the two men until they ran away.
Picture yourself as Lustig, hungry and penniless at the inn, suddenly remembering your magic bag, and using it to steal the two geese.
This episode is astonishing and perplexing. For one thing, Lustig has had his magic pack all along, yet he uses it for the first time only when he is out of money and hungry. He has not wished gold and jewels to appear in his pack to make himself rich and powerful. Who could resist such temptation? It would be like having a winning lottery ticket, and never cashing it in! What might be the meaning of this?
Moreover, Lustig uses the magic pack to steal the two geese from the innkeeper. Yet presumably, he could have created two geese magically, or for that matter, conjured up any kind of feast he might imagine. So why does he steal?
The answers lie in the nature of Tricksters. First of all, they love to steal -- but it is not for their own enrichment. Tricksters typically give what they take to the less fortunate. This is the Robin Hood principle -- robbing from the rich to give to the poor. Lustig does exactly this when he steals the two geese from the innkeeper -- who appears to be a prosperous property owner -- and then shares his largesse with the two hungry young workmen. Behind the Trickster's thievery is not greed, but rather generativity -- the instinct to give, especially to the younger generation, rather than to take for oneself.
Surprisingly, Lustig's gift to the young men backfires, and the two youths are beaten by the innkeeper. The story makes an important point here, present in other folk tales of midlife: there is no free lunch for youth, because they must work, learn discipline, and make commitments. But after years of labor and loyalty, magic unexpectedly returns.
The Trickster's impulse here is the reverse of the hero and the patriarch. Heroes basically go out on an adventure, seeking their fortune, and end up with great treasure, power, and even a kingdom of their own. Sometimes heroes receive this reward for killing a terrible villain, while at other times they frankly steal the treasure, usually from somebody who is depicted as evil, like a wicked witch. Either way, their story revolves around personal gain. Patriarchs, for their part, defend what they have gained, usually seeking even more, and watching warily for would-be thieves (namely young hero wannabes). The Trickster represents a post-heroic and post-patriarchal developmental stage -- after a man has proven himself, and garnered some success. Then the task is to turn around and give back to the world (but not in a pious, sentimental or self-righteous manner -- rather with pranks and humor).
Tricksters, in fact, oppose accumulations of wealth, property, power, or knowledge. They favor the circulation of all these resources among people -- exchange rather than accumulation. In mythology, Tricksters are the patrons of trade, rather than conquest or wealth. They favor currency, in the sense of flow, rather than piles of money.
The reason for this lies in the origins of Tricksters in nomadic gatherer-hunter culture. When a band or tribe move regularly to different territories, depending on the season and availability of food, having much property is a hindrance -- more stuff to lug around. Moreover, food supplies are often unpredictable, so reciprocated sharing is the rule. Successful hunters, for example, share their bounty with everyone in their group, with the understanding that when they hit a patch of bad luck, other hunters in their band will share with them. The same holds for the band or tribe itself -- they share their food with other bands in need, receiving help, in turn, when they require it. Here Tricksters offer an important paradigm for contemporary post patriarchal culture. We have all become nomads -- moving from job to job, and relationship to relationship, not because we are flighty or unstable, but because we live so long, and situations change so rapidly. The Trickster embodies the ideals of such a nomadic life -- sharing, humor, fraternity and play.
After finishing eating his goose, Lustig resumed his journey. He came to a castle, but found it strangely empty. Lustig stopped at a small inn next door. "Have you lodging for the night?" Lustig asked the innkeeper.
"Alas, no," the landlord said, "I have none. The lord of the land has moved in here, because his castle is haunted by demons."
Lustig scratched his head. "A man's got to sleep somewhere, and if you have no room, I'll stay in the castle."
"Many men have tried," the innkeeper warned, "but none have returned to tell about it." Lustig would not be dissuaded, so the innkeeper gave the soldier the keys to the fortress and food for dinner. Lustig marched into the main hall of the castle, built himself a fire and ate his dinner. Then he lay down to sleep.
In the middle of the night, Lustig was awakened by a commotion. Nine devils frolicked in a circle around him, breathing fire, and making a racket. "Dance as much as you like," Lustig warned the hideous creatures, "just don't come any closer."
The devils leaped up to Lustig, taunting him. "Enough!" the soldier cried out angrily. "Get away! Otherwise, I'll teach you some manners!" The demons only laughed and jostled against Lustig. So Lustig grabbed a stick of wood and hit the devils. He was a hearty fighter, but nine demons are too much for any man, and the ex-soldier was soon getting the bad end of the deal. "Help! Help!" he cried out, as the devils pummeled him unmercifully. Lustig ran to and fro but he could not escape the monsters. Then he remembered his magic knapsack.
"Into my pack, all of you!" Lustig shouted. In the next moment, the devils were trapped in his knapsack and Lustig gleefully tied the bag shut. The demons squealed and smoke poured from the pack, but none of the devils could escape. So Lustig lay back down and went to sleep.
The next morning, Lustig awoke, and made his way to the inn. The innkeeper was astonished to see Lustig alive, and ran to the lord of the castle. The nobleman appeared and exclaimed, "You're still alive, my good man!"
"Why, yes," Brother Lustig explained, "and I've cleaned out the devils that haunted your castle."
"You're a brave man," the lord said. "Stay in my service, and I shall see you shall never go wanting."
Lustig shook his head. "I want to see the world, so I'll just wander the road." But before he left, Lustig asked a smith to pound his backpack. The smith obliged, and hammered the knapsack. After a while, Lustig opened the pack and shook it out. Eight devils tumbled out, dead as could be. The ninth demon was tiny, and survived the beating, hidden in a corner of the pack. The little devil crept quietly away and ran back to Hell, unnoticed by Lustig.
Put yourself in Lustig's place, nonchalantly staying in the haunted castle, and then desperately fighting off the demons.
On his travels, Lustig comes to the castle haunted by demons. He stays there, despite warnings against it, and then battles the devils. This is a typical event in tales of heroic young men, but several factors make Lustig's fight with the demons different.
First, he loses. The demons overpower Lustig until he thinks of his magic knapsack at the last minute. Symbolically, fighting and the heroic approach fail him. On the other hand, the Trickster's way, symbolized by the magic knapsack, saves him. Second, Lustig does not battle the demons to win glory or treasure. He simply seeks shelter in the castle. Comfort is his goal not conquest, something post-heroic men will understand. After clearing the castle of the demons, Lustig even declines a reward from the grateful lord, the first time Lustig refuses one! Lustig prefers to wander the road. He voluntarily chooses what was forced on him at the beginning of the story when he was summarily discharged from the army and had to roam the world.
We usually do not think of Tricksters fighting demons, especially since modern culture portrays Tricksters as foolish and impotent -- think of the hapless Coyote always losing to the wily Roadrunner in the cartoon television series, or the Wizard of Oz, who turns out to be a rather inept humbug. Yet folklore from around the world consistently depicts Tricksters fighting demons. Even more important, and even less known, killing demons is their mission or calling given to them by the Supreme Being. They are charged with getting red of monsters to make the way safe for humanity. Eshu, the African Trickster, for instance, is called "road-maker," because the Creator sent him to clear the way of demons and disease, so that humanity could safely settle the world. Similarly, Wakdjunkaga, the trickster for the Winnebago tribe of North America, was sent by Earth-maker, the Creator, to kill monsters and clear the way for humanity.
Wakdjunkaga would typically forget his calling, and start playing pranks, lying, stealing, fornicating -- until he would suddenly remember his mission, and start killing monsters. Then he would forget, start doing mischief, lying, cheating and so on, until he had another moment of insight, and would start once more to battle humankind's enemies. The story is profoundly reassuring for men at midlife, who -- like Lustig-- frequently stray and make mistakes.
Note that the motivation behind the Trickster's battle with demons differs sharply from that of the hero. The hero seeks his fortune, and ends up winning a treasure, the hand of the Princess, or the whole kingdom itself. Fighting demons is for his own gain as much as it is for a community. The Trickster's fight, on the other hand, is principally for humanity, rather than himself. Personal gain is not the main concern, as Lustig makes clear by turning down the reward the lord of the castle offers him for ridding it of demons. The shift from the hero's ambitions to the Trickster's generativity provides a major answer to the question that opened this web site: what do we do when the stories of youth -- filled with dreams and ambitions -- end or fail. The Trickster says it is to remember one's original calling, one's mission to help humanity.
After trapping the demons in his pack, Lustig asks a smith to beat the devils to death. This brings up an intriguing point. Lustig initially uses the magic pack to obtain food-- stealing the two geese -- making it a source of nourishment. Later, he uses the knapsack violently, trapping the demons in it and killing them. The knapsack is nurturing first and only later violent. The same theme appears in other stories of men at midlife. Taken together, these tales emphasize that the primordial masculine power of the Trickster is primarily nurturing and only secondarily violent-- the opposite of the hero or patriarch.
Lustig continued on his way for many years, until he realized his time in the world would end. He began worrying about what would happen to him after he died. So he asked a hermit for advice. "How do I enter the Kingdom of Heaven when I die?" Brother Lustig inquired.
The hermit pointed to a rocky path in the woods. "The road to Heaven is there, and it is narrow, steep and hard." The sage pointed to a lovely avenue nearby. "That is the road to hell, and it is broad, easy and comfortable."
"Only a fool would take the hard road," Lustig told himself. So he set out on the easy avenue. In a short time, Lustig came to a huge black gate. It was the door into Hell, but it was closed for the day. Lustig picked up the knocker, and rapped loudly. A window in the door opened, and a devil peered out to see who had come calling. The demon gasped in terror when he saw Lustig, shut the window, and ran to the chief devil.
The doorkeeper was the little demon who had barely escaped with his life from Lustig's knapsack! The imp told all the devils not to let Lustig in. Otherwise, the demon explained, Lustig could wish everybody into his knapsack! The devils bolted the door shut and told Lustig to go away.
"Just my luck!" the former soldier grumbled, "turned away from Hell!" So Lustig labored back up the broad, comfortable road, until he came to the hard, steep path. "Well," he said to himself, "it can't be helped. I have to stay somewhere for eternity." So he set out on the narrow trail, and climbed and climbed and climbed. At last he came to Heaven, and there, behind the pearly gate, dozed St. Peter, dressed in beautiful white robes. Lustig recognized him at once as his old friend.
"Oh!" Lustig thought, "so my comrade is here before me. This will surely go well!" Lustig called out, "Old comrade! Here I am again, and I need a place to stay. Let me in!"
St. Peter roused himself and looked at Lustig with surprise. "You came here?" St. Peter exclaimed. "I can hardly believe that! You must try the other road, the broad and easy one."
"I've been there already and they won't let me in."
"Well, I can't let you in here, either," St. Peter shook his head firmly.
"A fine soldier you turn out to be," Brother Lustig retorted, "not helping a comrade in need." Lustig turned to leave, but then paused a moment. He took off his knapsack. "If you won't have anything to do with me, then I don't want anything to do with you either. Take your confounded pack back." Lustig thrust the knapsack through Heaven's gate.
"Eh? Well, all right then," St. Peter said, feeling a little awkward. The apostle hung the magic knapsack on a hook next to his seat, and then Lustig called out, "Into the pack with me!" Instantly, he found himself in his knapsack, and when he popped out, there he stood on the shining streets of Heaven. And once inside, St. Peter let him stay. So there Brother Lustig remains - unless he's wished all of Heaven into his knapsack!
At the end of the tale, Lustig wonders where he will stay for eternity and asks a hermit for advice. Lustig, of course, then takes the short, easy road to Hell, rather than the long, hard one to Heaven. He does the opposite of what he is supposed to -- he has essentially become what Native Americans call a "heyoka," or "contrary," who deliberately violates all social conventions. Contraries dramatize the Trickster's function of making fun of social convention, ideally to provoke people into "thinking outside the box."
This might seem like a fun thing to do, and certainly what adolescents love to try. However, in Native American tradition, being a contrary is a very burdensome calling, forcing the person to give up whatever prestige and authority he may have achieved, and live on the margins of society. Nevertheless, being a heyoka is a divine calling, usually heralded by dreams of Thunderbeings, and if an individual ignores the summons, insanity, illness or death results.
Lustig ends up in Heaven, because his first choice of eternal residence did not work out -- he was refused entry into Hell. The reason is significant. The demon who managed to escape from Lustig's magic bag became the gatekeeper to Hell, recognized Lustig and realized that Lustig might take over Hell with his magic knapsack. Had Lustig been more thorough in killing the demons, he would never have made it to Heaven. Note that the youthful hero would not be so sloppy, and let a demon slip away -- heroes tend to be puritanical perfectionists. Tricksters, by contrast, accept human foibles, excuse mistakes, laugh at failures, and tolerate evil. St. Peter, of course, does exactly that when he lets Lustig stay in Heaven. Tricksters like Lustig and St. Peter personify a more flexible, forgiving superego, which contrasts with the rigid, idealistic morality typical of young males. The transition from one to the other is a challenge for mature men.
Note that Lustig is able to go from Hell to Heaven -- he is able to travel between different worlds. This is characteristic of shamans and Tricksters, and signifies that Lustig has indeed become a first-rate shaman-Trickster. Even more dramatically, Lustig tricks his way into Heaven. This is a scandalous way to enter paradise, but typical of the Trickster's sacrilegious humor. It is also the final step in Lustig's midlife initiation into Tricksterhood, a process that St. Peter began with the pranks he played on the ex-soldier at the beginning of the story.
Such midlife initiation into Tricksterhood can be found in many aboriginal cultures around the world. Although the male puberty rite is often considered the archetypal male initiation, it is usually only the first in a series of initiations -- as men mature, they move through specific, age-related male lodges.
The Adelaide aborigines of Australia, for instance, have five stages of manhood, and men are eligible for the "bourka," the highest degree, only when they are "grey-haired." Similarly, tribes like the Wanika and the Wadai in Africa have separate societies for middle-aged men and young males, as did Native Americans like the Sioux and the Blackfoot.
Fraternities of young men are typically heroic and war-like, but societies of middle-aged men shift direction dramatically, and generally focus on transmitting tribal traditions and lore to the next generation, mediating disputes, and organizing the important spiritual rites of the culture. Members of these mature male lodges are generally respected warriors or chiefs -- they have successfully passed through the hero stage.
Most of these fraternities also accept any man who has proved himself, irrespective of his social status outside the fraternity. Commoners thus mingle with nobles, even in cultures where this is rare outside the lodge. (Lustig dramatizes the theme by traveling with no less a personage than St. Peter, the premier apostle.) Mature fraternities thus abandon the hierarchy typical of heroic and patriarchal organizations.
Initiates of the Poro, Ukuku, and Mwetyi lodges in Africa, for example, travel safely through different tribal territories, despite warfare between the tribes. The Trickster's fraternity over-rides patriarchal boundaries or heroic loyalties to a clan. Lustig symbolizes this aspect in a subtle detail. As a soldier, Lustig fought to defend or expand the boundaries of his country. As a wanderer, he travelled from kingdom to kingdom, ignoring the borders for which he fought earlier.
Within the privacy of their secret lodges, mature men become playful and relaxed. They tease each other and play pranks, like Lustig and St. Peter. Temporarily liberated from family and tribal responsibilities, men are free to be themselves and experiment with new roles. With such a playful, scandalous and outrageous spirit, it is not surprising that the patron of most mature men's societies is explicitly a Trickster. Ogo-Yuguru the Trickster for the Dogon tribe of Africa presides over their male Society of Masks; Minabozho the Hare-Trickster of the North American Ojibway established the Medewiwin society; and Wakdjunkaga set up the Medicine Rite lodge of the Winnebagos. The role of the Trickster in mature fraternities is often very concrete, because initiates are taught various tricks to fool their fellow tribesmen. Lodge members become Tricksters!
For instance, the Whare Kura, a Maori secret society, teaches their initiates ventriloquism, while the men's lodges of the Kwakiutl in Northwest America instruct their members in sleights of hand. Such trickery recalls how Lustig learned to steal after St. Peter gave him the magic knapsack, and the pack itself is the ultimate tool for sleight-of-hand!
Conclusion
We come at last to the end of Lustig's long, complicated and meandering story. The tale, however, is faithful to men's midlife experience -- which can be equally protracted, baffling, and seemingly aimless. What Lustig's drama offers us -- and which men often lack in real life -- is a map of this confusing terrain, delineating the psychological and spiritual tasks men face at midlife. Lustig's story is actually an ancient, and overlooked GPS for men (a Guide to Psychological Stages or in some cases, a General Plan for Survival.)
Perhaps the best way to summarize the lessons of Lustig's tale is to ask yourself where in his story you are now: Which of his tasks have you already faced and mastered? What developmental step you struggle with now? What psychological and spiritual challenges await you?