Elaine's Play Room, 2SIR with Love
A southern girl at heart, I moved to beautiful San Diego from Alabama. A 5'7", gregarious, gracious, sensual African-American. I like adrenalin driven fun, Political & Social Activism, and having been involved in social consciousness matters dating back to high school.
Its been several months since I added pictures, and several years since the text was changed. A lot has occurred since then, with in my own personal triumphs, and successes. We are living in tumultuous times, with Wars, famine, and political upheaval throughout the world. Even with such dire straits, there still remains much to be grateful for.
Our leather/BDSM/kink/fetish communities have grown and developed in leaps and bounds. We have carved nitches for any and everyone that dares to be different. Much debate was generated over the years regarding do we want any and all to be included and accepted in our communities. We saw the passing of many family members, whom we loved, bonded, and shared our lives with.
We have a community that embraces spirituality in leather sex, defining and redefining our paths and journeys. As it’s been said, it’s not the destination, but the journey that excites, educates and teaches us. Our communities are sexy, invigorating, and vibrant. It offers great fun and fantasies; naughty is always nice. Exploring ones erotic side allows emotional and spiritual travel into places which may evoke fear in many; while others embrace.
I’ve volunteered & participated in local San Diego nonprofit organizations & clubs (SM NA/AA, Special Delivery, LEATHERFEST SD,SDL, Black Beat LA); past focused interests and efforts within People of Color/ethnic leather communities for greater presence and involvement in BDSM. Embrace struggle where it will make a difference, at the ballot/voting booths.
I'm a Cancer, which makes me "private", sensitive and reserved; also outgoing, fun, and definitely loyal. I' m spoiled and over-indulgent (thanks Daddy). I love life, I love my family. I have grown, wept, celebrated and grieved with my family. I encourage all to live each day as if were your last.
Also take a look at my family, friends, mentors and community folk who are legends in their own right. ENJOY!