SERMON: IT'S EASIER TO RECEIVE GRACE THAN TO GIVE IT

A Sermon Delivered at First Christian Church Stockton
July 21, 2002

Isaiah 44:6-8, Romans 8:12-25, Matthew 13: 24-30, 36-43

He put before them another parable: "The kingdom of heaven may be compared to someone who sowed good seed in his field; but while everybody was asleep, an enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and then went away.  So when the plants came up and bore grain, then the weeds appeared as well. And the slaves of the householder came and said to him, 'Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? Where, then, did these weeds come from?' He answered, 'An enemy has done this.' The slaves said to him, 'Then do you want us to go and gather them?' But he replied, 'No; for in gathering the weeds you would uproot the wheat along with them. Let both of them grow together until the harvest; and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, Collect the weeds first and bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn.'"

Then he left the crowds and went into the house. And his disciples approached him, saying, "Explain to us the parable of the weeds of the field." He answered, "The one who sows the good seed is the Son of Man; the field is the world, and the good seed are the children of the kingdom; the weeds are the children of the evil one, and the enemy who sowed them is the devil; the harvest is the end of the age, and the reapers are angels. Just as the weeds are collected and burned up with fire, so will it be at the end of the age. The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will collect out of his kingdom all causes of sin and all evildoers, and they will throw them into the furnace of fire, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father. Let anyone with ears listen!

 

As usual, our friend Jesus has gotten himself into some trouble with the religious authorities.  They do not like the people Jesus is associating with, and the followers of Jesus disregard the law by plucking grain on the Sabbath.  Jesus himself makes a major mistake when he heals a man on the Sabbath.   The problem with the critics of Jesus is that they major in the minors and minor in the majors.  They have forgotten the important matters such as kindness, love, generosity, mercy, and forgiveness, and they have focused on the trivial matters only important to those who are blinded by their own moral condition.

But this is a major problem in the early church that the evangelist Matthew is dealing with.  What do we do when sinners and saints are worshipping together in the same church.  Shouldn't we eradicate the problem ones so that they do not overtake the righteous ones?  Can't we get rid of the weeds so that we are not contaminated by evildoers?  This is the question the church has been asking for 2000 years, and we still don't want to listen to Jesus' answer.  As an old Arab proverb asks, "Why does the camel never see its own hump, but its neighbor's hump is always before its eyes?"

The weed that Jesus is talking about in the parable is called a bearded darnel, which in its early stages looks identical to the wheat.  As the plants mature, the roots of the weeds and wheat intertwine, making them almost impossible to separate.  Separation, however, is necessary, because darnel is both bitter and mildly toxic.  If not removed prior to milling, darnel ruins the flour. 

In Matthew's church their were serious ethical and moral concerns.  Throughout Matthew's gospel he sets forth high ethical standards for the believers and is troubled by Christians who fail to live up to them.  The church is full of saints and sinners.  Matthew and others would feel more comfortable being in a purer church.

However, Matthew is also aware that the ones who gave Jesus the greatest difficulty in his ministry were not sinners, but the saints.  It wasn't sinners who conspired to kill him;  it was the religious elite, the high and mighty, the holier than others.  The sinners were his friends and comrades.

This is a serious problem requiring a well thought out solution.  We must not allow sin and sinners into the church.  One bad apple can spoil the whole bunch, and some think we need to examine all the apples and if any of them even slightly appears to be rotten or infected, then we should toss it out.

Where shall we begin?  Should we start with those who do not give adequately of their time, talent, and money to the church?  How about we get rid of the gossipers and complainers?  And God knows we have too many divorced people.  Weed them out.  Next, lets get rid of those who wear too much jewelry, and I know some of you spend way to much time in front of the mirror.  I suspect some of you are adulterers, and we know that many of you have cheated on your taxes.  And those of you who have neglected to feed the hungry, visit the jails and prisons, and set aside space in your living rooms for the homeless, off with your heads.  And to the gluttons and drunkards I have this to say; quit drinking so much and pass the cheesecake.  Will the last one left please close the door and set the alarm. 

But, in this parable, Jesus calls us to patience and faith -- patience with those who fail to meet the standard, and faith that God will deal with them at the right time.  Jesus tells us to do nothing lest we destroy the good with the bad.  Unlike God, we cannot know the person's heart.  Nor can we see where people's lives might take them -- their potential for redemption.  God has not equipped us with the vision and insight necessary to weed the garden.  As wonderful as it would be to have a "pure" church -- a church without sinners -- Jesus tells us that only in the harvest is such purity possible.  Attempts to achieve purity now will prove disastrous; we will destroy the church.  Just let God be the one who figures it all out.  In the end, the church will be wonderful -- fully redeemed -- entirely saintly -- but not just yet!  God is not through. 

It is interesting to recall that the disciples to whom Jesus addresses this parable include Judas, who will betray Jesus -- Peter, who will deny him -- Thomas, who will doubt him -- and James and John, whose concerns seem to have less to do with the kingdom than with their personal ambitions.  In the end, only Judas is lost -- and I am convinced that, had he waited until after the resurrection and asked Jesus to forgive him, even he could have been redeemed.

We need to learn to be patient with one another, in all of our relationships.  Be patient with your imperfect partner, and quit trying to make them into your image of who you want them to be.  They are already created in the image of God, just as you, so let them be.  Parents will do well to be patient with imperfect children -- and children with imperfect parents.  Supervisors will do well to be patient with imperfect employees -- and employees with imperfect bosses.  Pastor's need to be patient with imperfect parishioners, and parishioners need to be patient with imperfect pastors.  As they say in 12 step programs, we need to stop taking the inventory of others and focus on our own walk.

We are sinners living among sinners.  If we demand too much, condemn too quickly, or break off relationships too easily, we doom ourselves to a lifetime of revolving-door relationships -- or perpetual loneliness.  We who hope to receive grace must also be willing to give it.

That does not mean that we need to put up with abuse in any of our relationships.  God forbid you hear that.  Abuse should never be tolerated. 

We have no business deciding who is a weed and who is a wheat.  What God will do in the end is solely up to God.  Everyone one of us, saint and sinner alike, are still under construction, a work in progress, a story still being written.  Finding fault with others is a nasty little game we need to quit playing.  Today's worst sinner may be tomorrow's greatest saint if God has anything to do with it.

Why is it that we find it so easy to receive God's grace but so difficult to extend God's grace to others?  Anyway, it is God's grace that is given, so let God give it to whom she wishes.

 

Michael Malone
July 21, 2002

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